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Even if I don't intend to, I raise my voice when I get upset. I refuse to be the first one to apologize after a fight. When I argue with others, I allow old grudges to resurface. After an argument, I am left with bitter feelings. When I argue with my partner, we end up fighting over something completely different than what we started with. I swear at my partner when I get upset. I focus on finding a solution that will benefit both of us. When my partner makes a valid point, I let him or her know that I agree. When arguing, I focus my criticisms on what I think my partner has done wrong, not on him or her as a person. When I realize that I was wrong, I admit it to my partner.